Really awful news has been delivered to my wife and I

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Bill16 said:
Talking with the doctors and nurses have now switched to mostly about comfort care, letting her go as comfortly as possible. They believe there is no chance of recovery now, and want to take her off of life support in the next couple days, with me there in that she may die right away or shortly after that.
I haven't yet convinced myself my beloved is going to die, and has no chance to get better. Not in my heart..............
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Praying for you Bill. That yo u might have strength. This is a diffIcult road.

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I am so sorry, I wish I had words to comfort you. Just know tonight I will say a special prayer for both of you. I pray for strength for you and peace for her.
 
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"CHRIS"

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I'm still praying as well Bill. Stay strong.....as strong as you can my friend. Wish I could say something to make you feel better....

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Some things are really harder to accepter thàn others Bill. I hope toi will je with her to thé last moments. Ans dont forget to keep talking to her, letting her know jour lové for her. Even when unconcious, people can hear you. You can help her getting through this expérience with you. Accordant to some who livre n'est death expérience, it gets better afterwards.
My prayers will be for you and you wife for the next few days.
Sorry for the typos, I'm typing on my android tablet that keeps changing what I write...
 
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Ironwood

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I'm sorry to hear this latest news Bill. I don't ussually pray, even when I had cancer myself, but I will pray for comfort for your Wife, and strength for you to get through the tough times ahead.
 
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Lawrence

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What does one say at a time like this?
Awful news and no words can ever comfort you in times like these.
Being there for her is the best you can do.
We are here for you.
Strength my friend
 
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May the Lord comfort you and guide you in making your decision, and may His peace be with you throughout this difficult journey.
 
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Daz

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We are all here for you Bill !! Prayers and thoughts are with you both, Stay strong for your beloved and make sure she knows how much you love her. It will comfort her in this bad time.
 
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Bill16

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Today or tomorrow my beloved will be going on comfort care, meaning she will be let pass on while trying to keep her as comfortable as possible off the ventilator and otherlife support. Her son Evan is with her now, and likely will be through this, the tuffest time. I can't stand to go watch the person I love the most in this world struggle trying breath as she dies.
Her son Evan seems to be less torn up over this and................sorry I'm breaking down even writing this.........my baby,..............
 
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Bill16 said:
Today or tomorrow my beloved will be going on comfort care, meaning she will be let pass on while trying to keep her as comfortable as possible off the ventilator and otherlife support. Her son Evan is with her now, and likely will be through this, the tuffest time. I can't stand to go watch the person I love the most in this world struggle trying breath as she dies.
Her son Evan seems to be less torn up over this and................sorry I'm breaking down even writing this.........my baby,..............
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Bill i have stayed clear of this thread for purely selfish reasons,historical and current but dont think you both haven't been in my thoughts and prayers,stay strong.
 
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SteveL54

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Bill, this must have been one of the most difficult decisions that you have ever had to make. Deep down you know that you have made the right choice, and you can be sure that she trusts in you.
Praying for her journey to be easy, and praying for you knowing that you've done everything possible. Be at peace with yourself. She is in the Lord's hands now.

-= Steve =-
 
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May Anice rest comfortably until the Lord takes her home, and may you find peace knowing it was the right decision to make. No doubt your tears are flowing and your heart is breaking. And the emotional pain you are feeling must be overwhelming. We are here for you, Bill. Take solace in knowing your Nikonites friends do care.
 
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Bill16

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The nurse on duty today doesn't like my staying home and now responds a bit coldly when I call. But there is nothing I can do about it, and since she doesn't know my love and I, I can understand her disapproval. But it is hard to deal with at this terrible time....
 
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