Really awful news has been delivered to my wife and I

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RON_RIP

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Sorry to hear this buddy. I know you will find the strength within yourself to be at her side in this most trying time. I am pulling for you both during this crisis.
 
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"CHRIS"

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I know you are in the worst place right now Bill. I hate not being able to help. I will continue to send up my prayers for both of you. Keep the faith.
 
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Bill16

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With the help of a friend from the hospital, I went by taxi to go see my beloved today. I doubt she knew I was there though I talked to her and stroked her forehead.
I will try to go again tomorrow with her son giving me a ride if possible. But there is no good news to share, and I can only hope there will be better news tomorrow. There is very little chance of any news being good, and the doctors and nurses don't expect any good news. They keep trying to keep me from getting my hopes up, when it is so unlikely there will be any chance she will survive both the infection and this aggressive cancer.
It is all I can do to try to hold it together, and not break down every time I have to think about it.
 
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Daz

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I think I speak for everyone when we say we wish we could be by your side in person, but we are there in spirit !!
 
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C. Hand

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Bill I believe there is always hope. Maybe the doctors want to keep you grounded, they deal in facts and previous experience but they are surprised every now and then. As a person of faith I believe people go to a better place. Two years ago I lost my brother to H1N1 I was there when he took his last breath, as much as that killed me there is comfort truly believing he is in a better place and we will see each other again. Keep the hope alive and believe she misses you as much as you do her!
 
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Bill16

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Thank you my dear friends. Regardless of what happens I hope I can continue my photography and enjoy your company here on Nikonites.:)
 
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Scott Murray

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Sorry to hear about your wife mate, I am not a big prayer believer but if it helps then I pray for you both.
Just keep your spirits up and think positively, positive thoughts always help :).
 
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Blacktop

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Terrible news Bill. I don't know what to say, other than what everyone else is saying. I don't do good when it comes to these sad things.
 
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RON_RIP

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I am sorry for this news Bill but I want you to know how proud I am to hear that you overcame your disability enough to be at her side. Just being there has to help and I would bet that she knows you were there even if she could not say so. Spend every moment that you possibly can with her Bill. I am sure that your presence is still a comfort to her.


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cwgrizz

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So sorry that you are not receiving news we all want to hear. Continuing to pray that you will have a peace to be able to visit her because she in some way will know you are with her.
 
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hark

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Thanks for the update, Bill. I've been thinking about both of you today...and praying. Sending you a virtual hug, my friend.
 
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Bill16

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Talking with the doctors and nurses have now switched to mostly about comfort care, letting her go as comfortly as possible. They believe there is no chance of recovery now, and want to take her off of life support in the next couple days, with me there in that she may die right away or shortly after that.
I haven't yet convinced myself my beloved is going to die, and has no chance to get better. Not in my heart..............
 
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