Focus freeze could easy be related to VR who knows at this point but not in any way the shutter speed,i just feel your complicating the freeze issue for any one reading this.
It's not the shutter speed that is the problem. I posted here about my inconsistent focus thinking it might be related to the freeze issue. I could not explain why the one day I had nice and sharp shots and the next day, too many were out of focus. I now know the reason and that it has nothing to do with the freeze issue. The Tam does focus fine but at high shutter, VR is not beneficial.
The freeze is a separate problem but since it twice in a row occurred not long after I enabled VR, I think it has something to do with it.