I'm as cool as a cucumber. His simple question was leading to something; therefore, i answered accordingly. Simple.
I think this is how misunderstandings start. What you are guessing that some one means, may not really be what she/he means. Double guessing (I know what you mean when you say that you know what I mean .......) usually is the root cause of major flare ups. I have experienced people jumping from A to E, without going through B and C and D. Fine if two minds are tuned to each other, but for most, the steps B,C,D are needed.