I'll chime in on LinkDelight too. I ordered a battery grip for my D5100 way back and I remember it taking them literally a dark age to get to my doorstep from China. Seriously took about 5 weeks to arrive when I could have just gone on Amazon, spent $1 more, and had it in 5 days or less.
Product received ok, everything worked. It just took them awhile to ship from all the way across the world.
On the topic of a tripod..Well, you get what you pay for, really. Tripods are one of those things that you hate to spend money on, but when you need a feature you think to yourself, "Damn, that was a great investment!" So spend once, save up for something, beg borrow or steal to make it work. You'll be thanking yourself later.
I just happened to be able to snag a Dolica ZX600B300 carbon fibre tripod on black friday for around $70. LOVE it so far, it's awesome. Just have to keep your eyes open for the sick deals!