Yes, I think you are right. It is about getting the best RAW file that reduces post. I still feel that for me it is still some hit and miss but I am focusing more and more on the Triangle. One of the things I have been utilizing more is ISO. Not just auto Iso but considering raising it incrementally to allow for the depth of field I want and the shutter speed I need. Also trying to prevent blowouts but setting the histogram to flash if I have blown out the highs or lows. I do think they are helping my technic for getting a better RAW file.
I do still rush sometimes. That is part of the condition my condition is in, but I am trying to focus on getting the right exposure. White Balance is a challenge for me too. Sometimes I use my Expodisc. It is a cool tool for getting it right and it works. But I do not always use it. A lot of times I do set that in post using the eyedropper in LR.
Dan, Thank you for the note. Good to hear that I'm not alone, and on the right track. Also, thanks for the reminders on ISO, and using the blinking alert on the histogram for clipped highlights or shadows. I do also rely on the eyedropper tool for adjusting white balance in ACR. It is particularly useful for portraits, where I use the whites of the eye or the teeth to adjust white balance. It's a bit of an annoyance and moreso disconcerting when the Auto WB is way off. I guess what I was reminded of in the earlier responses is that the Auto WB or any WB setting doesn't actually apply to the RAW, so I shouldn't be getting worried over that, just worry more about getting the exposure close to correct.
I've never really used the bracketing feature on the D7100. Am wondering if that might probably help me some. Anybody here have experience or tips to share in that regard?