Another shot in a restaurant, in this case, a mother and daughter at the next table in a jazz club/restaurant. The daughter asked me to take a photo of her mother since I had taken some of the group as individuals before they started to play. I think she assumed I was the house photographer.
I enjoy those types of unplanned portraits and this happens almost every time I go out with larger lenses. They never ask when shooting with my smartphone despite is delivering some very nice images. The daughter was in her late 20s so I figure her mother in this photo was late 40s or early 50s. I used a 85 1.8G at f/2.2 to blur the background, with one speed light off camera and her daughter holding a small folding gold reflector just out of the frame. They wrote me later saying it was the best photo of the mother ever and offered me a home cooked meal because the mother was an established chef and had a cooking program on TV 15 years ago. Total set up time was about 15 second, so getting decent shots with limited equipment is certainly possible in just about any environment if one thinks about the final image before even picking up the camera. A key part is visualizing it before deciding settings lenses or pose. I looked at mother with one eye closed to see as a 50mm lens would see to find flattering angles. With one eye, depth impression collapses just like it does for the camera so slight changes in viewing angles make a big difference. Moving my head slighting while talking to her gave me the idea of what looked best. A 1/2 inch to my left changed the appearance of her nose, as it appears larger, wider tip that was not as feminine looking. Getting her relaxed and not posing, for me usually means not smiling the way people do when a camera was present. She looked much better with smoother contours when she was not grinning for the camera. Women almost always look more intelligent and sophisticated of features when not broadly smiling. I had her lean her head slightly forward and chin 1/2 inch up which visually eliminated her slight double chin which also gave a narrowing of her nose impression.
I enjoy this type of shot, slight angles and shadow differences turn a face from rather plain to attractive erasing years of living. Although it was quick and dirty I tried using my Samsung Note 4 phone as a light meter and got a reading from her forehead and set the D800 for 1.5 stops down and set the flash in manual to 1/128th power (SB900)and got it close to her on the right side of the frame so there would be a lot of fall off to the bright wall behind her. I had a homemade grid on the head of the flash which controlled spread. Describing the process takes 10 times longer than just seeing the scene and doing it literally in seconds. Do it enough times and visualization to execution becomes sort of a fluid one-step processes, like driving a car. It takes far longer to break it down verbally than just know interactively with the off camber corner, of steering lock and carry speed that gets the corner done efficiently even though it involves complex physics concepts. When using a grid on a speedlight, if any softening is desired, putting a diffusing sheet between the flash lens and the grid softens the light but the grid still controls the beam width. I usually set the flash head to a wide beam, 24-35mm because zooming into 200mm field of view on the flash head can result in hot spots in the projected beam. Without a grid, beam width zooming can be a useful tool in limiting the spread of a flash head when not using any modifiers. I think I captured her soft feminine nature, with a lovely soft musical speaking voice and manners.