Sorry, diffraction is caused by only the lens aperture.
You are right only in this degree: Opening the f/stop (wider aperture) makes the edge effect be less significant, less of the total light passing through is affected by the edge - whereas stopping it down makes diffraction much more significant (much more edge effect to total area). It absolutely is 100% caused by the lens aperture.
Not sure I would name it an aberration, as much as a property... that is, it cannot be corrected, Wider aperture is better though, in this one property.
When a photo lens test report shows the measured resolution dropping off the more it is stopped down, what do you imagine causes that?
When a smaller telescope has less theoretical resolution (larger Airy Disk) than a larger one, why do you imagine that is?
Greater diffraction is why that is. It has nothing to do with the sensor.