that statement is contradicting.
When I shoot weddings outdoors (almost always at night) I use 2-3 light stands with flashes set at 1/32 power connected to 622n slaves. indoors theyre bounced, outdoor lifted at 13' and pointed down. 42" photoflex umbrellas for formals. I use the D3s at up to 12800 if I need but mostly between 3200-8000 and the D3 till iso 5000
Tripod? never used a tripod yet for weddings. why do you think you need it?
lightstands need to be beefy. people may tip it over and you might get sued. off camera flashes? doesnt matter. I used an SB28 til it died recently. consider the YN565 or even a cheap 560III
Let me put it this way, bluntly so: These folks are self-proclaimed rednecks having a tiny little wedding in their small country-like backyard. Great photos but aren't expecting AMAZING out of this world photos. Of course I will give them my best, no doubt, but I'm not going above and beyond with a lot more equipment than what I have (can't afford it yet, just bought the D800 a few months ago, still learning haha). I did rent a faster lens 24-70mm 2.8 and got a nice Manfrotto tripod. If it weren't for me, they'd probably just get someone to bring in a little cheapy Point and Shoot camera, ha. I still want to impress and get the experience in.
Reason I want to take the tripod is because there will be decorative lighting at night, but limited. I have a work light I am taking along, in case, because... why not. ha
Also I figured after carrying this thing around all day and still getting used to it, my hands will be getting a bit shaky towards the end of the night.
It may even rain around 7 PM.
Thanks for all of the awesome tips. Great info!!