so why would the 24 mp of a d600 be any better than the 24 mp of a D7100 ?
I think for prints. Because when you start with a bigger format, you have to enlarge less to get the same size print. So that effectively, the pixels of the larger format are smaller on the print. If you just look at the pictures on your computer screen, it will be difficult to actually see the difference.
It's basically the same thing that used to apply to film. When you make an 8x10 with a 35mm negative with 400 ASA film, and one from 6x6 with the same film and same development, you got a sharper image with the bigger negative for the same size print.
This is about the best I can explain it.