Post some pics with the exif data...You don't have the strength of the flash wound down do you....
Hi Pedro.
Thanks for the comment. I don't think that I touched the flash settings. No flash compensation set in the camera.
I have uploaded some test pictures below. In all three modes: P, A (set at f/1.8), S (set at 1/125), with and without flash, whereas the ISO
settings are: 100 / Auto on / ISO
limit 3200 / speed limit 1/125.

Filename - A - no flash - DSC_0384.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Aperture priority
ISOSpeedRatings - 1400
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Not fired
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
ExposureMode - Auto
White Balance - Auto
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
ISO Setting - 1400
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
ISO 2 - 100
Flash Used - Not fired
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF

Filename - A - with flash - DSC_0385.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Aperture priority
ISOSpeedRatings - 640
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Flash fired, compulsory flash mode
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
SceneCaptureType - Standard
GainControl - Low gain up
ISO Setting - 640
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
Flash Mode - Built-in,TTL-BL
White Balance Adjustment - 0
White Balance RB - 742
Exposure Adjustment - 68608
Thumbnail IFD offset - 11422
Flash Compensation - 67072
Lens type - AF-D G
Lens - 1514
Flash Used - On camera
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF
Total pictures - 10567

Filename - P - no flash - DSC_0382.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
Orientation - Top left
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
Software - Ver.1.01
DateTime - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited
ExifOffset - 228
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Normal program
ISOSpeedRatings - 1400
ExifVersion - 0230
DateTimeOriginal - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
DateTimeDigitized - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
ComponentsConfiguration - YCbCr
CompressedBitsPerPixel - 1 (bits/pixel)
ExposureBiasValue - 0.00
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Not fired
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
UserComment -
SubsecTime - 60
SubsecTimeOriginal - 60
SubsecTimeDigitized - 60
FlashPixVersion - 0100
ColorSpace - sRGB
ExifImageWidth - 2464
ExifImageHeight - 1632
InteroperabilityOffset - 37112
SensingMethod - One-chip color area sensor
FileSource - Other
SceneType - Other
CustomRendered - Normal process
ExposureMode - Auto
White Balance - Auto
DigitalZoomRatio - 1 x
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
SceneCaptureType - Standard
GainControl - High gain up
Contrast - Normal
Saturation - Normal
Sharpness - Normal
SubjectDistanceRange - Unknown
GPS information: -
GPSVersionID - 2.3.0.0
Maker Note (Vendor): -
Data version - 0210 (808595760)
ISO Setting - 1400
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
Flash Mode -
White Balance Adjustment - 0
White Balance RB - 742
Exposure Adjustment - 68608
Thumbnail IFD offset - 11422
Flash Compensation - 67072
ISO 2 - 100
Lens type - AF-D G
Lens - 1514
Flash Used - Not fired
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF
Total pictures - 10564
Thumbnail: -
Compression - 6 (JPG)
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
JpegIFOffset - 37272
JpegIFByteCount - 8536
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited

Filename - P - no flash - DSC_0382.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
Orientation - Top left
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
Software - Ver.1.01
DateTime - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited
ExifOffset - 228
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Normal program
ISOSpeedRatings - 1400
ExifVersion - 0230
DateTimeOriginal - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
DateTimeDigitized - 2013:04:17 17:09:08
ComponentsConfiguration - YCbCr
CompressedBitsPerPixel - 1 (bits/pixel)
ExposureBiasValue - 0.00
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Not fired
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
UserComment -
SubsecTime - 60
SubsecTimeOriginal - 60
SubsecTimeDigitized - 60
FlashPixVersion - 0100
ColorSpace - sRGB
ExifImageWidth - 2464
ExifImageHeight - 1632
InteroperabilityOffset - 37112
SensingMethod - One-chip color area sensor
FileSource - Other
SceneType - Other
CustomRendered - Normal process
ExposureMode - Auto
White Balance - Auto
DigitalZoomRatio - 1 x
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
SceneCaptureType - Standard
GainControl - High gain up
Contrast - Normal
Saturation - Normal
Sharpness - Normal
SubjectDistanceRange - Unknown
GPS information: -
GPSVersionID - 2.3.0.0
Maker Note (Vendor): -
Data version - 0210 (808595760)
ISO Setting - 1400
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
Flash Mode -
White Balance Adjustment - 0
White Balance RB - 742
Exposure Adjustment - 68608
Thumbnail IFD offset - 11422
Flash Compensation - 67072
ISO 2 - 100
Lens type - AF-D G
Lens - 1514
Flash Used - Not fired
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF
Total pictures - 10564
Thumbnail: -
Compression - 6 (JPG)
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
JpegIFOffset - 37272
JpegIFByteCount - 8536
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited

Filename - S - no flash - DSC_0386.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
Orientation - Top left
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
Software - Ver.1.01
DateTime - 2013:04:17 17:10:53
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited
ExifOffset - 228
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Shutter priority
ISOSpeedRatings - 1400
ExifVersion - 0230
DateTimeOriginal - 2013:04:17 17:10:53
DateTimeDigitized - 2013:04:17 17:10:53
ComponentsConfiguration - YCbCr
CompressedBitsPerPixel - 1 (bits/pixel)
ExposureBiasValue - 0.00
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Not fired
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
UserComment -
SubsecTime - 50
SubsecTimeOriginal - 50
SubsecTimeDigitized - 50
FlashPixVersion - 0100
ColorSpace - sRGB
ExifImageWidth - 2464
ExifImageHeight - 1632
InteroperabilityOffset - 36962
SensingMethod - One-chip color area sensor
FileSource - Other
SceneType - Other
CustomRendered - Normal process
ExposureMode - Auto
White Balance - Auto
DigitalZoomRatio - 1 x
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
SceneCaptureType - Standard
GainControl - High gain up
Contrast - Normal
Saturation - Normal
Sharpness - Normal
SubjectDistanceRange - Unknown
GPS information: -
GPSVersionID - 2.3.0.0
Maker Note (Vendor): -
Data version - 0210 (808595760)
ISO Setting - 1400
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
Flash Mode -
White Balance Adjustment - 0
White Balance RB - 742
Exposure Adjustment - 68608
Thumbnail IFD offset - 11422
Flash Compensation - 67072
ISO 2 - 100
Lens type - AF-D G
Lens - 1514
Flash Used - Not fired
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF
Total pictures - 10568
Thumbnail: -
Compression - 6 (JPG)
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
JpegIFOffset - 37120
JpegIFByteCount - 8602
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited

Filename - S - with flash - DSC_0387.JPGMake - NIKON CORPORATION
Model - NIKON D5100
Orientation - Top left
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
Software - Ver.1.01
DateTime - 2013:04:17 17:11:04
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited
ExifOffset - 228
ExposureTime - 1/125 seconds
FNumber - 1.80
ExposureProgram - Shutter priority
ISOSpeedRatings - 720
ExifVersion - 0230
DateTimeOriginal - 2013:04:17 17:11:04
DateTimeDigitized - 2013:04:17 17:11:04
ComponentsConfiguration - YCbCr
CompressedBitsPerPixel - 1 (bits/pixel)
ExposureBiasValue - 0.00
MaxApertureValue - F 1.74
MeteringMode - Center weighted average
LightSource - Auto
Flash - Flash fired, compulsory flash mode
FocalLength - 35.00 mm
UserComment -
SubsecTime - 20
SubsecTimeOriginal - 20
SubsecTimeDigitized - 20
FlashPixVersion - 0100
ColorSpace - sRGB
ExifImageWidth - 2464
ExifImageHeight - 1632
InteroperabilityOffset - 38286
SensingMethod - One-chip color area sensor
FileSource - Other
SceneType - Other
CustomRendered - Normal process
ExposureMode - Auto
White Balance - Auto
DigitalZoomRatio - 1 x
FocalLengthIn35mmFilm - 52 mm
SceneCaptureType - Standard
GainControl - Low gain up
Contrast - Normal
Saturation - Normal
Sharpness - Normal
SubjectDistanceRange - Unknown
GPS information: -
GPSVersionID - 2.3.0.0
Maker Note (Vendor): -
Data version - 0210 (808595760)
ISO Setting - 720
Image Quality - BASIC
White Balance - AUTO
Focus Mode - AF-A
Flash Setting - NORMAL
Flash Mode - Built-in,TTL-BL
White Balance Adjustment - 0
White Balance RB - 742
Exposure Adjustment - 68608
Thumbnail IFD offset - 11422
Flash Compensation - 67072
ISO 2 - 100
Lens type - AF-D G
Lens - 1514
Flash Used - On camera
Bracketing - 2162688
Noise Reduction - OFF
Total pictures - 10569
Thumbnail: -
Compression - 6 (JPG)
XResolution - 300
YResolution - 300
ResolutionUnit - Inch
JpegIFOffset - 38444
JpegIFByteCount - 8761
YCbCrPositioning - Co-Sited
As you can see, in both A and S, the D5100 doesn't alter neither speed nor aperture when activating the flash. It just reduces the sensitivity from 1400 to 640-720. In P it narrows the aperture to f/7.1 and increases the sensitivity to 3200.
Do you think this makes sense?