True but DoF can be adjusted by playing with your aperture until you're at the max.
Even if the two lenses have the same max aperture, the 50 will always have shallower DOF that the 35 can't quite match. A longer FL lens will always deliver shallower DOF than a shorter lens of the same max aperture. In this case the difference will be small, but there's a difference nevertheless.
The only thing you can duplicate with the 35 by getting closer is FOV.