So to summarise and conclude before unsubscribing ...
Other forum members were unable to advise the OP of the most basisc wedding photography trick of using balls to make shaping guests simple.
All the rest is off topic so the job is done ...all I can learn is dont help anyone and dont post pictures ..
unsubscribed.
Well, except for the fact that most us reading THIS thread, also read your (infamous?) posts in "that other thread"... You know, the one where you criticized another poster's arguably fantastic wedding photos and then go on to insult the bride by referring to her as "too old" and having large hips?
Sidebar: Am I to rightly assume from that post you decline jobs from brides-to-be who are past a certain age or with hips you find too large? And if so, at what point exactly do those hips become "too large" to be worthy of your efforts?
In short, you seem quick to criticize the work others yet won't post your own work. By "pictures" (plural) I think you mean "picture" (singular). We only found your work online after hunting for it and having reviewed it myself, I have to say while I've seen much worse, I too have certainly seen much better and I don't seem to be alone in that assessment. Which leads me to your pointing out most of us here are not wedding photographers and therefore are not in a position, really, to know good wedding photography from bad. I would point out most of us don't have, nor do we need, excellent singing voices in order to recognize excellent singing when we hear it. Just as most of us are able to recognize superb wedding photography when we see it without needing to be wedding photographers ourselves.
What you take away from your experience here on Nikonites is entirely your own. I just hope you did in fact learn something and I wish you all the best in future endeavors.
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