But my wife has decided to throw in the towel after 35 years of marriage and almost 40 years together. I don't relish starting over at 60 but after the lies and stringing me along to think she was still willing to work on it I guess it is time to move on. Look on the bright side, now I will have more time to devote to photography! Henceforth, she shall be referred to as the "plaintiff"