Reply to thread

Message: <blockquote data-quote="hark" data-source="post: 254470" data-attributes="member: 13196">By now you probably realize the value of a contract. However, it isn't only for your protection...it's for the client's protection, too. And you can sell the benefits of a contract to them as locking in your low price, being there in a timely fashion and doing all that is required of you, as well as guaranteeing the final product by a specified date. So please don't view a contract as something scary (not sure if you do or not, but also don't know why you didn't use one). That said...if something unexpected comes up such as you break your arm or leg, you've got to have a back-up plan so the job gets completed. Secondly...your prices are very low. That is your choice. And how you advertise is your choice. However, all of that says something about you. It implies you might be starting out and possibly don't have a lot of experience. My point is this: if you advertise low prices and state you are looking for further experience, most likely you won't be getting too many clients who are able to afford the finer luxuries in life. It seems that you are catering more towards some who might be considered less than desirable clients. Granted, there are good and bad people no matter what their education or income level, but wouldn't the majority of people looking for a reputable photographer go by word-of-mouth or one who advertise in places other than just free sites? Let's put it this way...if our camera is out of warranty and is broken, how many of us would get it serviced by someone who only advertises on free sites and who says they want to gain experience? What types of clients will this person get? Personally I think you acted professionally regardling your interactions with the client. One can only guess why she opted for a different photographer. Maybe someone in the family wanted to do it as a wedding present (hence no out-of-pocket payment involved). Possibly your not having a contract made you a target--the client is easily off the hook if they change their mind for whatever reason. Please use this life experience as a stepping stone to propel you forward rather than an obstacle that holds you back. If we all learn from our mistakes and take strides to avoid making the same mistakes over and over, that's where we grow in both knowledge and maturity. It's accepting the responsibility that we messed up rather than trying to pass-the-buck. And then taking action so as not to repeat the same mistake again. I think your mistake was in not having a contract--no matter how you advertise, you've got to value yourself enough to find a contract a worthwhile part of your business. Good luck to you on your next gig--and there WILL be another wedding opportunity in your future! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink    ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />And +1 to [USER=12257]@Pretzel[/USER]. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

Verification