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Message: <blockquote data-quote="traceyjj" data-source="post: 534975" data-attributes="member: 27458">I understand all this greed Bill. My brother didnt visit his mum in almost 20 years, and his wife made it hard for mum to talk to him too (until they found out she was terminally ill). Now she has passed, they are lining up at the house they visited just once, wanting "their share" (mum was still in her bed, waiting for the funeral people to collect her when it all started!) now they are phoning regularly to see if I have sorted out "this" and "that".  I have now slowed all the processes right down (I am lucky to be in control of mums estate), but it doesnt help the grieving process, getting called regularly to find out when they are getting their "bit".Stay strong Bill, I know its not easy, but please try.  Look after YOU, forget the others, but dont let them get away with anything.</blockquote>