Its easy. Hit menu, on left go to Custom Setting Menu, the Pencil, scroll to Controls, then go to f2 Assign AE-L/AF-L button, scroll to AE lock (HOLD), hit OK. Now the button will stay on hold until you push it again.
Thanks!
Not sure how I could/did not locate that earlier.
My wife would simply chalk it up to my "always overlooking things" but I honestly had searched this out before asking the question.