my opinion is, 85 mm macro so you can get a bit more reach, and 50mm for portraits, though the 35 isn't too shabby either. You can't go wrong with either choice.
Just 1 question though. You have a 35 1.8 in your signature?
Sorry D5100Shooter but that is terrible advice.
First of all, a kit lens, for macro will NEVER be close to the same thing as a dedicated macro lens. You will never be able achieve the same results. You cannot get 1:1 life size with a kit lens, and getting close ups and cropping, is a terrible idea. The kit lens isn't BAD, but its nothing to praise either.
A 50mm 1.8 prime is NOTHING like 50mm in a kit lens. The only thing that is the same is the focal length. being able to stop to 1.8 is a HUGE difference between the 2 as apposed to 3.5 or whatever it is (been years since i have seen one). Subject to background separation, bokeh, clarity etc, ALL DIFFERENT.
Aparently you have never used a good, tack sharp lens, to know the differences (i recommend you do). If they were as good as you say they are, everyone would have one. It is a KIT lens for a reason...its a cheap, mediocre walk around lens, and nothing more. It was built this way, so it can be replaced by better glass in the future. It's nikons crazy way of hooking people on photography and getting them to buy bigger and better stuff. lol.
Also, to say that the best of photographers only use 2-3 lenses is a joke. You use what you need for the job/task at hand...some use a few, some use 10 different lenses. You are also not mentioning that the "2-3" lenses that they mostly use is about $6000 worth of glass. BIG difference.
AHHH CRAP....all of us pro photographers went out and invested thousands of dollars for nothing!
I did look at Kirstens site, and she does have some "decent" shots but if you read closely, her most recent work was with a D300s and a 70-200 2.8.
No, the quipment isn't everything, I never said it was.
It is true that the camera/lens doesnt always matter when it comes to artistic vision and creativity. it DOES however matter when it comes to quality. If you could get pro quality from consumer grade equipment, we would all be out of business. Just like any pro who uses a tool of any kind....are you going to walk into a top classic car builder, open his tool box and find harbor freight tools? I doubt it.
Kirsten is a Ken Rockwell humper. I didnt knock her work, just said there were some decent shots. enough said about that.
Oh and as for Ansel Adams, it was known that he was a TERRIBLE photographer. he didn't know his head from his butt when it came to his gear...but he was a master in the darkroom. I never said you couldnt get great shots from cheaper equipment. But show me an iphone photo that you think is great, printed out large, say 20x30 against the same shot taken with a pro body and lens, and then tell me which one is superior. I look at photography just like every other level headed photographer. You dont take things personal, well i think its a pretty apparent jab to pro photographers when you sit here and say they wasted their money and would be better off with a kit lens. Just because a kit lense works for you, doesnt mean its right for everyone.